You said I must eat so many lemons,
'cause I am so bitter.
I said I'd rather be with your friends mate,
cause they are much fitter
me.
I kick asses.
Monday, December 10, 2007
[ 10:31 PM ]
Kids scream, kick, shout and cry when they feel unloved, or if they need attention. And honestly, these kids make so much noise that you just want to tear your hair apart. And they annoy the hell out of you. And because they irritate us as much as they do cos of all the noise they make, we might not give them what they really need: attention and love.
And what if these kids grow up feeling unloved and unattended to? What kind of adults do they grow into? They become exactly what they used to be. They scream and shout when they do not get the love and attention they need. These are actual real needs for such people, and though the rest of society might laugh at the fact that adults might have such needs, these are things that are not to be ignored. When someone comes to you and tells you they feel unloved, its a real need that needs to be fulfilled.
Of course, there are always exceptions. The bunch that use the lack of love and attention as excuses for misdeeds. And the ones who become selfish because they are consumed by their own needs. What do we do with this bunch of people? Do we just ignore them, or do we actually stay on to fulfill their needs?
You see, i have finally figured out the reasons behind the problems i have been facing. But i am still left, hung between options. I have gotten mixed forms of advice from people close enough for me to have spoken to. I am still left at the end of the day, wondering if i am doing the right thing for myself.